Sunday, May 11, 2008

Maternity Leave


Datuk Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat addressing attendees at the Workers’ Day gathering in Stadium Malawati, Shah Alam, yesterday.

SHAH ALAM: The five Pakatan Rakyat state governments want to add to the number of days of maternity leave, which is now 60.
While Selangor and Kedah are seeking another 30 days, Penang is opting for 15 days.
But all five state governments agreed to meet to discuss how best to implement a standard maternity as well as paternity leave.
Selangor Menteri Besar Tan Sri Khalid Ibrahim said at a Worker s’ Day gathering yesterday that the five state governments would negotiate with employers to increase the number of days for maternity leave.
Present at the function, organised by the Pas workers and settlers’ bureau, were Perak Menteri Besar Datuk Seri Mohammad Nizar Jamaludin and Penang Deputy Chief Minister Mohammad Fairus Khairuddin.
Kelantan was represented by executive council member Datuk Husam Musa and Kedah by executive council member Phahrolrazi Zawawi.
The state governments also agreed to support calls by unions for a minimum wage.
Khalid said Selangor was seeking a minimum wage of RM1,500 for employees in the state, an amount higher than the RM900 sought by the Malaysian Trades Union Congress (MTUC).
“We feel workers deserve at least RM1,500.
“If employers cannot meet this, then we will look at how long-serving employees can draw better salaries.” He said Selangor considered its workers an asset, adding that higher remuneration would increase productivity.
“A minimum wage is not a reason for a pay rise. Only the deserving and those with added skills and knowledge should get a pay increase.” All the other four representatives echoed his sentiments, with Mohammad Nizar saying that Perakwas also looking in - to the issue.
He said a happy and satisfied workforce would create a healthier investment climate.
“Investors would like to see good relations between workers and employers and we bel i e ve reasonable minimum wages would foster that.” He disagreed that a high minimum wage would lead to higher inflation.
“I do not see a correlation between them. There are many other economic and social factors linked to the problem.” At present, there is a minimum wage for four categories of workers — shop assistants, those in the hotel and service industry, cinema attendants and Penang Port cargo workers.
Later in the afternoon, MTUC president Syed Shahir Syed Mohamud said union leaders would be handing over a memorandum on various issues concerning workers’ rights to the government at Parliament on Wednesday.
Workers at the “gather ing” would carry placards to highlight workers’ issues and the memorandum would be handed over to Human Resources Minister Datuk Dr S. Subramaniam.
Kelantan Menteri Besar Datuk Nik Abdul Aziz Nik Mat, who arrived in the afternoon, told the gathering that the best way to resolveworkers’ issues was through the Islamic way.
He said the Quran stated it was noble towork and leaders must help the workers.
Islam also called for the rights of workers to be protected.

Mothers Day


KUALA LUMPUR: Millions of women will be recognised worldwide today for their unselfish love, untiring dedication and indomitable spirit which have nurtured so many lives.

Mothers Day, which falls on every second Sunday in May, is a day to honour and remember all mothers, past and present.

Although the title "mother" is often bestowed on the female biological parent, motherhood is not always bestowed by nature.

An adoptive, foster or stepmother fulfils the social role of a mother despite the lack of biological ties.

Motherhood is, perhaps, a prime example of nurture versus nature.

It was 101 years ago that an unassuming 43-year-old lady named Anna Marie Jarvis from Philadelphia, United States, personally took up the daunting task of setting aside a special day to honour all mothers.

Growing up, Jarvis had heard her mother, Anne Reese, speaking about setting up a memorial to remember all mothers, living and dead.

Jarvis had hoped that the day would strengthen family ties, increase appreciation for living mothers and remember those who had died.

On Reese's second death anniversary in 1907, Jarvis embarked on a national campaign for Mothers' Day.

She chose the white carnation, her mother's favourite flower, to symbolise the virtues of motherhood, such as purity, everlasting love and charity. Today, red or pink carnations represent mothers.

Jarvis tirelessly wrote and spoke to businessmen, politicians and everyone she could think of about her ambitious plans.

In 1914, President Woodrow Wilson declared the second Sunday in May as a legal holiday for everyone to celebrate Mothers' Day.

Fresh from the national victory, Jarvis took her campaign internationally.

Sadly, Mothers' Day, along with numerous other celebrations, has fallen victim to crass commercialisation.

Celebrations for mothers date back to ancient times and has religious and social backgrounds.

Our celebration, however, was adopted and modelled on the American principles.

Azean celebrates in hospital


TO most, 58-year-old actress Azean Irdawaty Yusoef is a symbol of hope and a role model to women, especially those battling breast cancer. Diagnosed with critical stage three breast cancer in June 2007, Kak Yan, as she is affectionately called, is a face of inspiration as she battled with the illness.
After a number of operations, Kak Yan was able to celebrate Mother's Day yesterday with her husband Khairil Anwar Zainal Mukhtar Rashidi (Karl ) and her three chi ldren, Khaeryll Benjamin, 30, Elza Irdalynna, 21, and Inessa Irdayanty, 18.
Not only that , af ter a 12-month break from any acting roles, she has begun working again in Rashid Sibir's Mother's Day telefilm Mama on Astro Ria recently.
Was it a sign that all is well for this strong-willed woman? “Well, I thought I was well enough for Mama and other acting offers,” Kak Yan said when Malay Mail contacted her yesterday.
“On the outside, I may look great. But, even I wasn’t aware that my body is actually not yet strong enough internally. I had fever and was coughing badly until I sounded like a rocker. I don't think I'll be acting again anytime soon.” Still, Kak Yan added that if she is strong enough, she'll start acting again soon. If things work out, she hopes to be acting in a movie, scheduled to start shooting sometime in September.
“I can't reveal anything yet as it is still in the discussion stage. I am actually looking forward to be in that movie, but all depends if I am well enough.” “Actually, I had minor surgery last Wednesday because my wound was infected and I had to be operated on. I'm feeling much better now,” said the actress.
Although she wasn’t feeling well, it did not deter her and her family celebrating Mother's Day.
“They visited me at the hospital. Karl gave me a bouquet of peach-coloured roses and my children bought me an Oxford Thesaurus. They know that I love crossword puzzles and Sudoku.” “Usually, my family would take me for a nice dinner, be it Italian -- my favourite, or to a Thai food restaurant, or even a warung -- depending on their budget! (laugh).
What's important is that we spent time together.” “I consider myself very lucky that my children don't really wait for May 11 to make me feel special. With them, every day seems like Mother's Day.” Azean added that her family has always been supportive and loving. “Right now, they are really pampering me. I can't bathe due to my wound, so they take turns to give me sponge baths and clothe me. They really baby me.” While she was happy, there was a tinge of sadness in her voice as she remembered her mother, Hajjah Che' Embun, who died of heart failure and high-blood pressure at age 73 five years ago.
“I miss her so much. I used to call her rather frequently, just to ask her opinion on things, or simply for the joy of talking to her.
Life is just not the same without a mother by your side,” she said.



Gifts for Mothers Day


MOTHER’S Day is a time to celebrate the queen of our hearts. On this day (which falls on May 11), show your appreciation to your mum with a special gift. Be it fine jewellery, exquisite timepieces, or elegant fragrances, here are some choices that make splendid gifts.* Give your mum a gift from Tiffany & Co., the premier jeweller.The locket charm, a classic keeper of memories, comes in precious metals and gleam with the distinct expression of Tiffany design.It comes in beautifully-contoured heart and oval shapes in gold or sterling silver, with options in size to suit the wearer’s taste.
One can also personalise the lockets. The smooth, polished surface may be engraved with initials, name and date or a miniature photograph, message or other tribute placed inside it.Tiffany’s locket collection is available at Tiffany stores in Suria KLCC and Pavilion Kuala Lumpur.* Issey Miyake has come up with some simple gift ideas for Mother’s Day.The L’Eau d’Issey Mother’s Day Gift Box is shaped like a shopping bag and contains a 50ml Eau de Toilette and a 100ml Moisturising Body Lotion.The L’Eau d’Issey Mother’s Day Prestige Gift Box contains a 100ml Eau de Toilette and a 100ml Moisturising Body Cream. * Cartier recently unveiled the feminine Perles de Cartier watch from the Cartier Libre Collection at the recent Salon International de la Haute Horlogerie in Geneva.The Perles de Cartier watch expresses Cartier’s taste for creativity and playfulness. The watch has four circles, and circles within circles. Gleaming mother-of-pearl dials surround either diamonds or a set of pearls. This timepiece inaugurates Cartier’s feminine watches and jewellery in creations of white and black, luminous and offbeat in a luxurious celebration. * Ralph Lauren presents an exciting tribute to mothers with its Mother’s Day Romance Set.Beautifully packaged in a sophisticated silver box adorned with Ralph Lauren silver ribbons, the set, priced at RM340, contains a Ralph Lauren Romance perfume (100ml) and a 100ml deodorant spray.


Saturday, May 10, 2008

Kiss Me by Six Pence None The Richer

Lyric:

Kiss me out of the bearded barley.

Lightly, beside the green, green grass.

Swing, swing, swing the spinning step.

You wear those shoes and I will wear that dress.

Oh, kiss me beneath the milky twilight.

Lead me out on the moonlit floor.

Lift your open hand.

Strike up the band and make the fireflies dance,silver moon's sparkling.

So kiss me.

Kiss me down by the broken tree house.

Swing me high upon its hanging tire.

Bring, bring, bring your flowered hat.

We'll take the trail marked on your father's map.

Oh, kiss me beneath the milky twilight.

Lead me out on the moonlit floor.

Lift your open hand.

Strike up the band and make the fireflies dance,silver moon's sparkling.

So kiss me.

Kiss me beneath the milky twilight.

Lead me out on the moonlit floor.

Lift your open hand.

Strike up the band and make the fireflies dance,silver moon's sparkling.

So kiss me.

So kiss me.

So kiss me.

So kiss me.

For What Its Worth by Cardigans

Friday, May 9, 2008

Aku Cinta Padamu By Siti Nurhaliza



Andainya engkau ku miliki
Terdahulu sebelumnya
Andai ku curah rasa hati
Mungkin kini ku tenang di samping mu

Belum puas ku menikmati
Kesan kasih sayang kau terpaksa pergi
Ingin ku terus dicintai
Walau bisikanmu azimat berduri

( 1 )
Bila cinta berbunga
Jadi airmata di jariku

( 2 )
Betapa ku cinta pada mu
Katakanlah kau cinta padaku
Sematkanlah ku di hati mu
Walau di mana berada
Ingat ku dalam doa mu

Hiasilah hati
Dengan cinta suci
Selamanya

( ulang 1, 2 )

( 3 )
Gemerlapkan jiwa
Semikanlah cinta
Semoga kau dan aku
Akhirnya bersama
Akukan menunggu
Walaupun seribu tahun lagi

( ulang 3, 2, 3 )

When I Need You by Leo Sayer



When i need you
I just close my eyes and i'm with you
And all that i so want to give you
It's only a heartbeat away

When i need love
I hold out my hands and i touch love
I never knew there was so much love
Keeping me warm night and day

Miles and miles of empty space in between us
The telephone can't take the place of your smile
But you know i won't be travelin' forever
It's cold out, but hold out, and do i like i do
When i need you
I just close my eyes and i'm with you
And all that i so wanna give you babe
It's only a heartbeat away

It's not easy when the road is your driver
Honey that's a heavy load that we bear
But you know i won't be traveling a lifetime
It's cold out but hold out and do like i do
Oh, i need you

When i need love
I hold out my hands and i touch love
I never knew there was so much love
Keeping me warm night and day

When i need you
I just close my eyes
And you're right here by my side
Keeping me warm night and day

I just hold out my hands
I just hold out my hand
And i'm with you darlin'
Yes, i'm with you darlin'
All i wanna give you
It's only a heartbeat away
Oh i need you darling

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Love Song - CINTA By Melly Goeslow & Krisdayati

C.I.N.TA song by XPDC


C.I.N.T.A. K.I.T.A.

C.I.N.T.A. K.I.T.A. satu rasa
C.I.N.T.A. B.U.T.A. tak bermata lahirnya
C.I.N.T.A. G.I.L.A. pada harta
M.A.N.A. C.I.N.T.A.. yang sebenar2nya
C.I.N.T.A. K.I.T.A. sampai bila
Manakah satu arah kita sebenarnya dunia

Kita berasmara di dalam cinta yang tak bermaya
Kita berupaya selagi padu janji setia
Kita selami cinta ini kian lama
Telan arus nangis ketawa
Sama rasa pastinya
Walaupun tahu cinta itu tak bermata
Namun masih banyak ada
Yang menawan di dalamnya

Love Song - I Will Always Love You By Leona Lewis



If I should stay
Well, I would only be in your way
And so I'll go, and yet I know
That I'll think of you each step of my way
And I will always love you
I will always love you
Bitter-sweet memories
That's all I have, and all I'm taking with me
Good-bye, oh, please don't cry
'Cause we both know that I'm not
What you need
I will always love you
I will always love you
And I hope life, will treat you kind
And I hope that you have all
That you ever dreamed of
Oh, I do wish you joy
And I wish you happiness
But above all this
I wish you love
I love you, I will always love

I, I will always, always love you
I will always love you
I will always love you
I will always love you

Love Songs - I Love You by Celine Dion



I must be crazy now
Maybe I dream too much
But when I think of you
I long to feel your touch

To whisper in your ear
Words that are old as time
Words only you would hear
If only you were mine

I wish I could go back to the very first day I saw you
Should've made my move when you looked in my eyes
'Cause by now I know that you'd feel the way that I do
And I'd whisper these words as you'd lie here by my side

I love you, please say
You love me too, these three words
They could change our lives forever
And I promise you that we will always be together
Till the end of time

So today, I finally find the courage deep inside
Just to walk right up to your door
But my body can't move when I finally get to it
Just like a thousand times before

Then without a word he handed me this letter
Read I hope this finds the way into your heart, it said

I love you, please say
You love me too, these three words
They could change our lives forever
And I promise you that we will always be together
Till the end of time

Well maybe I, I need a little love yeah
And maybe I, I need a little care
And maybe I, maybe you, maybe you, maybe you
Oh you need somebody just to hold you
If you do, just reach out and I'll be there

I love you, please say
You love me too
Please say you love me too
Till the end of time
These three words
They could change our lives forever
And I promise you that we will always be together

Oh, I love you
Please say you love me too
Please please
Say you love me too
Till the end of time
My baby
Together, together, forever
Till the end of time
I love you
I will be your light
Shining bright
Shining through your eyes
My baby

Romantic Gift Ideas to Her

Perfect gift for your girlfriend, wife, mom, grandmother, sister, aunt, or other special woman in your life?

To some guys choosing a gift for their love on some special occasion is a very tough job. The key rule while choosing a gift is to remember one thing that the gift should convey your feelings. The price of a gift doesn’t matter, choose gifts which can enhance intimacy between you like lingerie is a perfect romantic gift for her.
# Try to choose lingerie which suits her taste and style and pack it in attractive present box.
# French perfumes
# Roses are considered ambassador of love.
# A vacation spent at a coast or mountains

Smile

To Make A Girl Smile
If you know how to make a girl smile, then you will automatically be more successful with women in general. People like to smile, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside and these feelings will be associated with the person who has made you smile. Wouldn’t you like a girl to feel warm and fuzzy when she thinks about you ?

Here are the kinds of smiles you are trying to get:

# Genuine smile
# Compliment smile
# Impressed smile
# Happy smile

1. Tell her she is beautiful (not hot, fine, or sexy)

2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second.

3 . Kiss her on the forehead.

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5 . Always tell her you love her every second of the day.

6 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.

7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

8 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.

9 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.

10 . Write her notes. (she loves them)

11 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.

12 . Play with her hair.

13 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.

14 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.

15 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.

16 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night . . . just because you missed her.

17 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.

18. Carve your names into a tree.

19 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.

20 . Give her piggyback rides.

21 . Bring her flowers.

22 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

23 . Look her in the eyes and smile.

24 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.

25 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.

26 . Kiss her in the rain.

27 . If your in love with her . . . tell her

For your mum



Buatmu Ibu
Artist: Aeman
Ibu bergenang air mataku
Terbayang wajahmu yang redup sayu
Kudusnya kasih yang engkau hamparkan
Bagaikan laut yang tak bertepian

Biarpun kepahitan telah engkau rasakan
Tak pula kau merasa jemu
Mengasuh dan mendidik kami semua anakmu
Dari kecil hingga dewasa

Hidupmu kau korbankan
Biarpun dirimu yang telah terkorban
Tak dapat kubalasi akan semua ini
Semoga Tuhan memberkati kehidupanmu ibu

Ibu kau ampunilah dosaku
Andainya pernah menghiris hatimu
Restumu yang amatlah aku harapkan
Kerana disitu letak syurgaku

Tabahnya melayani kenakalan anakmu
Mengajarku erti kesabaran
Kau bagai pelita di kala aku kegelapan
Menyuluh jalan kehidupan

Kasihanilah Tuhan ibu yang telah melahirkan diriku
Bagaikan kasih ibu sewaktu kecilku
Moga bahgia ibu di dunia dan di akhirat sana...

Kasih sayangmu sungguh bernilai
Itulah harta yang engkau berikan
Ibu... dengarlah rintih hatiku untukmu ibu

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Your Mother



Who should you give your love to?
Your respect and your honour to?
Who should you pay good mind to - after Allah,
And Rasullullah?
Comes your Mother,
Who next? Your Mother
Who next? Your Mother
And then you Father

Cause who used to hold you
And clean you and clothe you?
Who used to feed you
And always be with you?
When you were sick, stay up all night,
Holding you tight?
That’s right no other, your Mother

Who should you take good care of,
Giving all your love?
Who should you think the most of - after Allah
And Rasullullah?
Comes your Mother,
Who next? Your Mother
Who next? Your Mother
And then you Father

Cause who used to hear you
Before you could talk?
Who used to hold you
Before you could walk?
And when you fell, who’d pick you up?
Clean your cut?
No one but, your Mother, your Mother

Who should you stay right close to?
Listen most to?
Never say no to – after Allah
And Rasullullah?
Comes your Mother,
Who next? Your Mother
Who next? Your Mother
And then you Father

Cause who used to hug you
And buy you new clothes?
Comb your hair and blow your nose?
And when you cried who wiped your tears?
Knows your fears? Who really cares?
Your Mother
Say Alhamdulillah,
Thank you Allah
Thank You Allah for my Mother

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Five Little Ducks



Five little ducks
Went out one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said
"Quack, quack, quack, quack."
But only four little ducks came back.

Four little ducks
Went out one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said
"Quack, quack, quack, quack."
But only three little ducks came back.

Three little ducks
Went out one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said
"Quack, quack, quack, quack."
But only two little ducks came back.

Two little ducks
Went out one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said
"Quack, quack, quack, quack."
But only one little duck came back.

One little duck
Went out one day
Over the hill and far away
Mother duck said
"Quack, quack, quack, quack."
But none of the five little ducks came back.

Sad mother duck
Went out one day
Over the hill and far away
The sad mother duck said
"Quack, quack, quack."
And all of the five little ducks came back.

A B C Song

A - B - C - D - E - F - G

H - I - J - K - L - M - N - O - P

Q - R - S - T - U and V,

W - X - Y and Z

Now I know my A - B - C's

Next time won't you sing with me?

A - B - C - D - E - F - G

H - I - J - K - L - M - N - O - P

Q - R - S - T - U and V,

W - X - Y and Z

Now I know my A - B - C's

Tell me what you think of me...

Now I know my A - B - C's

Tell me what you think of me...


Jack and Jill



Jack and Jill went up the hill
To fetch a pail of water.
Jack fell down and broke his crown,
And Jill came tumbling after.

I'm a Little Teapot



I'm a little teapot, short and stout
Here is my handle [one hand on hip], here is my spout [other arm out straight]
When I get all steamed up, hear me shout
Just tip me over and pour me out!
[as song ends, lean over and tip arm out like a spout]

Humpty Dumpty




Humpty dumpty sat on a wall
Humpty dumpty had a great fall
All the King's horses
And all the King's men
Couldn't put Humpty together again

Wheels on the Bus

The wheels on the bus go round and round,
round and round,
round and round.
The wheels on the bus go round and round,
all through the town.

The wipers on the bus go Swish, swish, swish;
Swish, swish, swish;
Swish, swish, swish.
The wipers on the bus go Swish, swish, swish,
all through the town.

The horn on the bus goes Beep, beep, beep;
Beep, beep, beep;
Beep, beep, beep.
The horn on the bus goes Beep, beep, beep,
all through the town..

The money on the bus goes, Clink, clink, clink;
Clink, clink, clink;
Clink, clink, clink.
The money on the bus goes, Clink, clink, clink,
all through the town.

The baby on the bus says "Wah, wah, wah;
Wah, wah, wah;
Wah, wah, wah".
The baby on the bus says "Wah, wah, wah",
all through the town.

The mommy on the bus says "Shush, shush, shush;
Shush, shush, shush;
Shush, shush, shush."
The mommy on the bus says "Shush, shush, shush"
all through the town.

The wheels on the bus go round and round,
round and round,
round and round.
The wheels on the bus go round and round,
all through the town.

Are You Sleeping

Are you sleeping, Are you sleeping,
Brother John, Brother John,
Wedding Bells are ringing,Wedding Bells are ringing,
Ding Ding Dong.
Are you sleeping, Are you sleeping,
Brother John, Brother John,
Wedding Bells are ringing,Wedding Bells are ringing,
Ding Ding Dong.
Are you sleeping, Are you sleeping,
Brother John, Brother John,
Wedding Bells are ringing,Wedding Bells are ringing,
Ding Ding Dong.

Monday, May 5, 2008

Marry Had a Little Lamb

Marry Had a Little Lamb

Mary had a little lamb,
Little lamb, little lamb,
Mary had a little lamb,
Its fleece was white as snow
everywhere that Mary went,
Mary went, Mary went,
Everywhere that Mary went
The lamb was sure to go
It followed her to school one day
School one day, school one day
It followed her to school one day
Which was against the rules.
It made the children laugh and play,
Laugh and play, laugh and play,
It made the children laugh and play
To see a lamb at school.
Mary had a little lamb,
Little lamb, little lamb,
Mary had a little lamb,
Its fleece was white as snow.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Today In History

Memory: Babies have good memories. They can remember something they learned weeks prior. For example, babies were taught to move a mobile by kicking their foot. Weeks later when placed in the same situation, these infants remembered how to get the mobile to move.Also, your baby’s sense of smell, taste and touch are fully developed at birth.

Birth to 2. Your infant is learning from the moment she enters the world. For example, studies done with newborn infants have found that they can recognize stories that were read to them while they were in the womb. Although newborns don’t appear to be doing much other than eating and sleeping, they are amazingly intelligent.

Aiman was born on 29 January 2008, Pusat Perubatan University Malaya.



Aiman, One Month Later




2 to 7 months. Imagination drives your child during this stage. Make-believe play helps build attention span, reasoning and creativity. By playing house with your child or simply encouraging her to play dress up, you will be stimulating her cognitive growth.
But don’t expect her to be thinking like an adult yet. No matter how much you stimulate her thinking, she will still think like a kid.

Aiman, 2 Months



19 April 2008 – Aiman is smiling…..hehehheh



You are my heart…..emmm…..i love u










Monday, April 28, 2008

Muslim Male & Female Names

If you don't have any idea to give you baby name.......
http://www.namesofallah.com/html/babynames.htm

Because of Love

Falling in love can play havoc with our hormones and brain, ... be different in men and women, because it's more important to survive at this stage. Part of the philosophical task in understanding personal love is to distinguish the various kinds of personal love. For example, the way in which I love my wife is seemingly very different from the way I love my mother, my child, and my friend.

Can love be justified? If so, how? What is the value of personal love?

Family Day

Baby Cute




Wow very cute.......When i was first pregnant, i like to look baby cute picture...insyallah you will get baby cute in the future. One important things....your baby health is good.




Bottle vs Breast

Ika_suzuka: Breastfeed or formula feed? It's normal to feel a bit overwhelmed by such an important decision. Ultimately, you have to make the right decision for your family. If anyone comes on too strong in favor of breastfeeding, try to keep an open mind...
Ika_suzuka: I choose to give my baby (Aiman Hakim), breastfeeding...sometimes I also give him formula feed. I chose nan1 for Aiman.. it's because sometimes i feel not enough milk to feed my baby. I know, breastfeeding is really good for my baby. For your information, I'm working. I feel very happy because my colleague also breastfeeding. She very powerful motivator...although she said breastfeed not enough.
Ika_suzuka: Can you help me and my friend....how to make enough to feed my baby????..

News....

YOUR report "Toxins in mother's milk" (NST, May 11) was badly timed and in bad taste. Bad timing because it is old news rehashed to appear on Mother's Day. And in bad taste because it undermines the confidence of millions of women who have lovingly nursed their babies with this "Cinderella milk".

Medical experts have known for decades that trace amounts of chemicals, including dioxins, can be transferred from a mother to a nursing infant. However, the concentrations transferred through breastfeeding are well below the levels that might cause adverse health effects.
Some studies have demonstrated subtle effects in children of mothers exposed to toxins, namely neuro-developmental delays and neuro-behavioural changes. But the effects are, in all but one study, attributed to exposure of the unborn child through the placenta rather than through breast milk. Several studies that looked at the effects of prenatal PCB exposure on cognitive performance, found that breast-fed children out-performed formula-fed children.
Despite the high PCB and dioxin levels transferred via breast milk, breastfeeding seemed to have a beneficial effect on the neuro-developmental status compared with formula feeding. It is postulated that the myriad of hormones and biological factors found in breast milk may have a protective effect on normal neurological development and mitigate the deleterious effects of prenatal exposure.

The point that needs to be driven home is not whether women should now reconsider their options of breastfeeding or bottle-feeding. That breastfeeding is superior and preferable is clear and unequivocal. Man's environmental sins must not now deprive our very young of the benefits of mother's milk. Our back-to-basics attitude towards medicine would suggest that the most effective way of addressing this problem is to limit environmental pollution to prevent these chemical pollutants from entering mother's milk in the first place. The banning and phasing out of various chemical toxicants has resulted in reduced emissions of pollutants in the environment.
According to a 1998 report by the World Health Organisation (WHO), concentrations of dioxin in breast milk are down by at least 50 per cent within the past 10 years in almost every region for which suitable data exists and are continuing to decline.
In 1990, the Innocenti Declaration on the Protection, Promotion and Support of Breastfeeding "called on all governments to act and create an environment enabling all women to practise exclusive breastfeeding from birth to 4-6 months and to continue breastfeeding with adequate complementary foods up to 2 years".
This international declaration, supported at the highest level of governments, empowers women to give their babies the healthy start they deserve, to survive and thrive in a world that is both mother- and baby-friendly. And since more and more babies start their lives in hospital, the global baby-friendly hospital initiative was mooted, where each of the "10 steps to successful breastfeeding" developed by Unicef and WHO were applied. The Health Ministry has been exemplary in its pursuit of the above accreditation. All public hospitals and a few private and university hospitals have been recognised as baby-friendly hospitals.

Honeymoon

Malaysia

I suggest you all plan go to Pahang Darul Makmur. I came from Bandar Jengka, Pahang. Pahang has many location if you want to go for honeymoon.http://www.pahangtourism.com.my/beaches/index.html

  • Langkawi

Langkawi Island is located just off the coast of North Western Malaysia, about 30 km from Kuala Perlis and 51 km from Kuala Kedah and close to Thailand. The archipelago of Langkawi contains 99 islands during high tide whereas during low tide, the number of islands can be as many as 104. Sanctuary of some of the most ancient rainforests in the world, they are teeming with exotic flora and fauna. Langkawi Island itself is the largest among the archipelago, measuring about 478.5 sq km, is the only one with any real settlement. It fringed by lovely beaches scattered along its coast. The island is still very much a rural landscape with villages and paddy fields.

By RoadDrive to Kuala Kedah or Kuala Perlis, the main take-off points by ferry to Langkawi. The journey from Kuala Lumpur to Kuala Kedah takes about six hours while Kuala Perlis is another hour away.

By AirMalaysia Airlines and budget carrier AirAsia provide direct air services from the Kuala Lumpur International Airport (KLIA) to Langkawi.There are direct flights to Langkawi from London twice a week.By RailKeretapi Tanah Melayu (KTM) or Malayan Railway provides economical and comfortable rail services from Kuala Lumpur to Alor Star in Kedah and Arau in Perlis (north of Kedah). From these points, take a taxi or bus Kuala Kedah and Kuala Perlis for your ferry to Langkawi.

By SeaExpress ferries provide regular services daily to Langkawi from both Kuala Kedah and Kuala Perlis. The journey takes about 1 hour 15 minutes and 45 minutes respectively. From Penang to Langkawi the ferry takes about 2 hours 30 minutes. The island is also a stopover for Star Cruises, one of the largest luxury cruise lines in the world.
http://www.langkawi.com.my/Getting-to-Langkawi.html







Note: - This pictures was taken by my husband on 18 Jan 2008, at Duty Free Port, Langkawi.



















Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star


Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are.
Up above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky.
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!



Did you remember when you was a child????

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Wedding Day

A wedding is a ceremony that celebrates the beginning of a marriage or civil union. Wedding traditions and customs vary greatly between cultures, ethnic groups, religions, countries, and social classes. In some countries, cultures and religions, the actual act of marriage begins during the wedding ceremony. In others, the legal act of marriage occurs at the time of signing a marriage license or other legal document, and the wedding is then an opportunity to perform a traditional ceremony and celebrate with friends and family. A woman being married is called a bride, a man called a bridegroom, and after the ceremony they become a wife or a husband, respectively.

Malay Wedding

Malay Wedding begins with the akad nikah ceremony. The groom signs the marriage contract and provide the bride with a mas kahwin. The formal contract of marriage or also commonly known as the marriage solemnization or wedding vows.


The ceremony of Berinai involves the staining of the couple’s hands with henna. Lesser or greater berinai ceremonies are held three times as follows:
a. Berinai Curi takes place three nights before the actual wedding ceremony (akad nikah) with the participation of close relatives and friends only.
b. Berinai Kecil. Takes place two nights before the wedding ceremony with the participation of family members, neighbours and close friends.
c. Berinai Besar is usually held after the completion of the religious ceremony (Akad Nikah).









The Kenduri is the wedding feast which follows the Bersanding Ceremony. Decorations are put outside the house and guest gather and have lunch and socialising. The kompang is arguably the most popular Malay traditional instrument, for it is widely used for all sorts of social occasions, for example wedding ceremonies.






Saturday, April 26, 2008

Songs for Children

SONGS

Ø Music is an important part of our "environment". The effects of music on the body, other scientists have studied its impact on physical and mental functions for many years.

Ø Most notably, music can measurably reduce stress and pain levels. For example, research supported by the
National Institute of Nursing Research recently found that listening to music reduced patients' pain levels following major abdominal surgery.



Baa, Baa, Black Sheep

Baa, baa, black sheep,
Have you any wool?
Yes sir, yes sir,
Three bags full.
One for the master,
One for the dame,
And one for the little boy
Who lives down the lane.
Baa, baa, black sheep,
Have you any wool?
Yes sir, yes sir,
Three bags full.
One to mend the jerseys
one to mend the socksand
one to mend the holes in
the little girls' frocks.
Baa, baa, black sheep,
Have you any wool?
Yes sir, yes sir,
Three bags full.


Do you have a lyrics....Old MacDonald Had a Farm??
Please join me....I'm still waiting...tq


Date: 29 April 2008

Ok...I have video...old MacDonald Had a Farm

Friday, April 25, 2008

Falling in Love



Love???
  • Love represents a range of human emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

  • As an abstract concept love usually refers to a strong, ineffable feeling towards for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual.



BECAUSE YOU LOVED ME

BY CELINE DION


For all those times you stood by me

For all the truth that you made me see

For all the joy you brought to my life

For all the wrong that you made right

For every dream you made come true

For all the love i found in you

I'll be forever thankful baby

You're the one who held me up

Never let me fall

You're the one who saw me through through it all

You were my strength when i was weak

You were my voice when i couldn't speak

You were my eyes when i couldn't see

You saw the best there was in me

Lifted me up when i couldn't reach

You gave me faith 'coz you believed

I'm everything i am

Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly

You touched my hand i could touch the sky

I lost my faith, you gave it back to me

You said no star was out of reach

You stood by me and i stood tall

I had your love i had it all

I'm grateful for each day you gave me

Maybe i don't know that much

But i know this much is true

I was blessed because i was loved by you

You were my strength when i was weak

You were my voice when i couldn't speak

You were my eyes when i couldn't see

You saw the best there was in me

Lifted me up when i couldn't reach

You gave me faith 'coz you believed

I'm everything i am

Because you loved me

You were always there for me

The tender wind that carried me

A light in the dark shining your love into my life

You've been my inspiration

Through the lies you were the truth

My world is a better place because of you

You were my strength when i was weak

You were my voice when i couldn't speak

You were my eyes when i couldn't see

You saw the best there was in me

Lifted me up when i couldn't reach

You gave me faith 'coz you believed

I'm everything i am

Because you loved me

You were my strength when i was weak

You were my voice when i couldn't speak

You were my eyes when i couldn't see

You saw the best there was in me

Lifted me up when i couldn't reach

You gave me faith 'coz you believed

I'm everything i am

Because you loved me

I'm everything i am

Because you loved me



L.O.V.E

Pasir putih tepi pantai
Ombak saling berkejaran
Kau lari aku mengejar
Di antara deru rindu... kita berdua
Basah-basahnya rambutmu
Sebasah asmara kita
Siapa dulu yang empunya
Kalau bukan ku seorang...
Kekasih hati
Ku... ku... ku... punya cinta
Ku... ku... ku... punya rindu
Abadaikan cinta kita
Ku... ku... ku... punya cinta
Ku... ku... ku... punya rindu
Kita bina selamanya
Asyik... asyik... asyik
Asyik... asyiknya bercinta
Seakan dunia milik kita berdua
Satukan rasa
Asyik... asyik... asyik
Asyik... asyiknya bercinta
Saling melepas rindu didada, antara kita
Asyik... asyik... asyik
Manis-manisnya senyummu
Semanis asmara kita
Ikan laut pun menari
Nyiur dipantai bernyanyi
Sungguh asyiknya

Asyik
Artis:
Amelina




Preparation for wedding


Engagement for Love

Sometimes, the things we learn about ourselves while planning a wedding can be surprising. We have already surprised by my change of feelings on engagement rings.




A Few Things to Selecting a Ring
  • Settings are usually made out of platinum (even on a gold ring) because of platinum's strength and durability.

  • To make regarding the band is the size. the most common choices for engagement rings are platinum and gold.

  • Gold has been popular in jewelry-making since the beginning of time, but because pure gold bends easily,it is usually alloyed with nickel, copper, and/or zinc.

  • Platinum is an extremely "hard" metal, its popularity in jewelry-making is not as long-lived as that of gold. Platinum is also more rare than gold; in fact it costs roughly four times as much as gold.